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July 27, 2026 By Kathleen

Ontario Woman Awarded $400,000
Over Husband’s Decades-long
Abuse in Legal First

First award of damages for intimate partner violence, a new civil tort just acknowledged by Supreme Court in May

By Adam N. Black, Special to Financial Post, July 27, 2026

The decision serves as notice that the courts are prepared to place meaningful and substantial sanctions on a wrong the law did not recognize until very recently. Photo by Peter Power/Postmedia

An Ontario woman has been awarded $400,000 in damages for intimate partner violence suffered at the hands of her husband, the first award of its kind since a landmark Supreme Court of Canada ruling in May recognized such violence as a new civil wrong.Justice Susan Vella of the Ontario Superior Court of Justice released the decision on July 22, following a nine-day trial.

The judge found that the woman “suffered many physical and psychological harms” as a result of her husband’s abusive conduct over the course of their 54-year marriage.

The details of the case are shocking. Justice Vella found that the husband repeatedly punched, slapped and choked his wife over the course of the marriage, struck her with a hatchet or hammer on two occasions and broke her front teeth with a glass ketchup bottle.

He kept a house full of over 500 firearms ranging from handguns to machine guns. In addition to taking out a gun when he was enraged with the wife, he told her he had the “25 cent or ten cent solution for her” — a statement the wife understood to refer to the cost of making a bullet and as a threat to kill her.

According to the judge, these threats caused the wife to live in constant fear.“(She) was trapped in the marriage, always trying to behave in a manner that would not trigger one of (the husband’s) bouts of rage and the ensuing violence,” the judge wrote in her ruling.

The wife’s description of these events was corroborated by the testimony of all four of the couple’s children, as well as by audio and video recordings, photographs and medical records.

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July 27, 2026 By Kathleen

Soaring Spirits Canada:
Grief Programs for the Widowed

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July 24, 2026 By Kathleen

No More Running From the Pain:
Surrendering, Letting it Flow Thru

Nicole Gray, 2004-2024

 

Nicole Gray, 19 years old when a fentanyl addiction sadly claimed her life, had a Mom who is a mental health clinician therapist. Several times, throughout the YouTube below, she mentions running from pain.

Here is more from Nicole’s Mom:

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Nicole Gray was a vibrant, creative, and deeply loved 19-year-old who tragically lost her life to fentanyl in April 2024.

The youngest of 4 children and the only daughter, Nicole was adored by her 3 older brothers and shared a special bond with her stepfather after losing her biological father at age 6.

Her childhood was marked by trauma and loss, and as she entered adolescence, she began struggling with anxiety, depression, and substance use, seeking comfort in relationships and self-destructive behaviors.

Despite efforts from her parents to get her help—including therapy, outpatient and residential treatment, and support through sober living—Nicole’s pain and inner emptiness often overwhelmed her.

She had moments of brightness, sobriety, and connection, but continued to battle addiction and shame.

On the anniversary of her father’s death, a relapse led to a heartbreaking spiral, and days later, she passed away after using fentanyl with a former acquaintance.

Her story, told by her grieving parents Jane Gray and Randolph Crews, is a painful reminder of how unresolved trauma, mental health struggles, and addiction can quietly devastate even the brightest lives.

Jane Gray:

If a Loved one is struggling with pain, with addictions, how we can help is to more deeply surrender to our pain.

Whenever any of the old feelings, hurts, resentments come up for us, to surrender to it, let it flow through—our surrender/sacred purpose/work directly goes to our Loved ones and to the Collective.

The Divine Mother and Sanat Kumara entreat us to let the pain run through us, out of us, to surrender to the LOVE within.

With conscious awareness, name the feeling—the fear, the sorrow, the shame, the disappointment, the judgements, the anxiety, the guilt, and say, “I let this flow through me” and then do so.

Feel yourself reach new levels where there is no addiction to anything, from caffeine to gambling, from sugar to sex, and everything in between.

Watch the pain dissolve . . . and . . .

feel the wellspring of joy
and awe bubble up! 

Footnotes
(1) “Sanat Kumara, Jesus & the Mother: What Is Surrender,” June 28th, 2026, https://voiceoffreedom.ca/sanat-kumara-jesus-the-mother-what-is-surrender/

(2) “The Divine Mother: How to Clear–Surrender and Be the LOVE–Let the Pain Flow Through You Out of You,” August 26th, 2014, https://voiceoffreedom.ca/mother-how-to-clear-surrender-and-be-the-love-let-the-pain-flow-through-you-out-of-you/

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July 22, 2026 By Kathleen

Heightened Domestic Violence
During World Sporting Events

Our conscious awareness of what is not working, for the implementation of what does, is growing. But as Angela Marie MacDougall, the Executive Director of Battered Women’s Support Services, says,

“You might think an organization called Battered Women’s Support Services wouldn’t still have to explain why specialization matters. Yet here we are. Nearly 50 years after BWSS was founded, we’re still making that case.”

With statistics and explanations, here is the BWSS Newsletter for July 22nd, 2026, written by Angela, and below that, what Universal Mother Mary explained about balance on Earth in her teaching of the blessing and virtue of hope:

The FIFA World Cup is over, and I am starting to catch my breath.

Like many of you, I spent wonderful time with friends watching remarkable moments on the field, and those aren’t the moments that have stayed with me.

I keep thinking about the women who reached out to BWSS during the tournament.

You see, before the tournament began, we urged the government to include intimate partner violence in public safety planning. We shared international research and proposed a specialized response because we believed more women would need support during the tournament.

The prevailing view was that this probably wouldn’t be necessary.

We didn’t agree, and we prepared anyway.

For 40 days our incredible team stepped right up and mobilized a 24/7 response that included on the street engagement and a public awareness and education campaign.

I have never been prouder of the incredible people who volunteer, work and support BWSS.

Of course the calls came in and women came to us with coercive control, escalating violence, strangulation, death threats and fear for their children, their companion animals and themselves.

Some were trying to decide whether to leave, others had already left and were facing the dangers that often come after separation, like stalking and post separation abuse.

By the end of the tournament, we had responded to 734 requests for specialized support, a 37.2% increase over the same period last year.

Nearly 70% of women required individualized risk assessment for lethality, 94 women disclosed strangulation, and 85 women reported death threats.

Those numbers matter; sure, we can make a compelling graph, but when a woman tells us what is happening in her life, she isn’t only asking for help.

She’s also teaching us something about how intimate partner violence works, where systems fall short and what safety actually requires. If we pay attention, every conversation makes us better at the next one.

That, to me, is one of the responsibilities of specialized intimate partner violence response.

Women don’t need another report, so why did we publish one?

Specialized intimate partner frontline service organizations respond to this violence, and we develop knowledge through practice; every safety plan, every risk assessment and every difficult conversation deepens our understanding of coercive control, strangulation, firearms use, lethality and what effective intervention looks like, and knowledge almost never leaves the frontline.

That’s why we’ve published From Evidence to Implementation, our practice-based framework for specialized intimate partner violence response during the FIFA World Cup 2026.

You might think an organization called Battered Women’s Support Services wouldn’t still have to explain why specialization matters.

Yet here we are.

Nearly 50 years after BWSS was founded, we’re still making that case.

Fortunately, we’re not making it alone.

Women’s Aid organizations across the United Kingdom have demonstrated the value of specialist services for decades, and researchers—including the authors of the Kirby World Cup Research—have reached similar conclusions.

Women have better outcomes when they can access organizations whose expertise is in intimate partner violence.

Intimate partner violence doesn’t just escalate. It is downplayed first.

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As we begin to truly embrace the Divine Qualities, the blessings and virtues of the higher realms, we create a Loving foundational way of being within, and therefore naturally strive for that to become our outer reality on Earth.

Universal Mother Mary had this to say when she taught us the blessing and virtue of hope:

The Divine Feminine, my energy and your energy, and again this is not gender based, is the ability to create and to bring forth, to birth what is truth, what is light, what is meaningful.

Western women have heeded the inspiration for a long time.

Think of, oh it has been about 70 of your years, in the United States where the Suffragists began to claim their right to vote, a very basic thing to say:

“My voice must be heard. My desires and what I wish to create for myself, and for my family must be taken into account.”

Now how was that born?

It was heavily influenced by the work that they were undertaking with emancipation.

And many women realized that it was not only their black brothers and sisters who were enslaved, but them as well, that they did not have the power to invoke the practical changes.

And this has gone in fits and starts, the rise of feminism, again the demand for liberation, for freedom, yes, biological freedom, reproductive freedom.

It is self determination and what I say, and you are seeing this all over your planet, this rise, St. Germaine’s Cry for Freedom, the Arab Spring, but this Cry for Freedom has come most strongly, most clearly and most consistently from the western women.

You will not stand for it and you will not stand for children being shot and families going hungry and inequality because none of these things are of love.

The redefinition of family, of what constitutes family, of expanded family, of reconstructed family, of community and what community is capable of, is coming from the grass roots of women.

Now I do not say this to the exclusion of the male population because at the same time as you are shifting and ascending, the male population is finally embracing their Divine Feminine in the same way that many of the women are saying:

“I will have to embrace my Divine Masculine and move into action in new and different ways.”

So it is reaching the balance and it is the western women saying, particularly to the western men, being in a male dominated society and culture is not acceptable.

“What you have created economically, financially, politically, culturally, is not loving.

“It is not reflective of the Divine Qualities.

“It does not take into account the potential and the sanctity of each life.”

 

July 13, 2026 By Kathleen

The Darkest Web

In the 1990’s the US Department of Defense created the Dark Web so their spies could communicate in complete secrecy. In 2004 the Dark Web was made public, allowing the criminals to conceal their identities from law enforcement. By 2012 pedophiles were gathering on the Dark Web—building hidden sites devoted to child exploitation.

The pedophiles in this documentary are young, very techie, deeply afflicted. (Did the same abuse happened to them as young children?)

According to the information here, there are millions of users on the dark web with approximately 50 dedicated officers working day and night around the world to put a dent in it.

I watched this video in awe of the people dedicated to protecting children. If you decide to, and you feel helpless to do something, do know invoking Universal Law and the Violet Flame is a powerful way to create change . . . 

2,651,110 views
Premiered February 16, 2026

A global team of undercover officers take on the almost impossible – infiltrating the darkest corners of the internet to rescue children, bringing hope where none seemed possible.

For US agent Greg Squire and an international network of undercover officers, the mission is clear and unwavering: to penetrate the most hidden corners of the internet and stop those who exploit and harm children.

Operating across borders, cultures and political divides, this rare collaboration sees law enforcement agencies from countries including Russia and the United States working side by side. As officers track offenders in digital spaces designed to evade detection, this film reveals not only the scale of the crimes involved, but the resilience, determination and moral clarity of those committed to bringing perpetrators to justice.

For over seven years, #BBCEye journalist Sam Piranty was granted rare access to follow their work, observing the extraordinary lengths they will go to hunt down offenders and rescue children. [Read more…]

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